I was silent on our ride back to the hotel. Bob went for a swim while I was intensely focused on reading the digital version of the Chicago Tribune on my tablet.
In that moment, I realized I had what you’d call “culture shock”. I was still so preoccupied with processing the previous days’ experiences that my ability to absorb new ones was shrinking. It made sense that I was growing irritated with people talking. I didn’t want any more input.
Pie Chart of Preoccupation by Day:
The Trib was easy and familiar and demanded nothing of my diminished coping reserves.
The Tribune acted like an emulsifier between the world you live in and the world you are visiting. I find it comforting to listen to Vancouver radio stations when I am abroad it allows me the ability to absorb and, as you say, process the immediate experiences, without losing touch with where I will return to. (Oops! I ended that sentence with a participle). In my pie chart, my gut concerns would be about 90%.
These blogs are so good, Marge, I love reading them every day. Thank you for taking the time to generate them.
Hi Marge, Loved the brutal honesty. I can totally relate to the bathroom fear, pie chart of metal capacity and exhaustion of trying to process it all. I am delighted that you have Marging as a forum for reflection and humor. Keep em’ coming. I could really get used to a daily post. PS – love the picture of Bob getting out of the pool.